MY EXPERIENCE AS THE VICE PRESIDENT OUTGOING EXCHANGE OF AIESEC LAGOS

I finally handed over my position yesterday as VP OGX of AIESEC Lagos... I tell you it was a wonderful experience which I would never trade for any thing else...Having to work real hard without a team to achieve ma goals...making sure to put smile on the faces of all SNs by getting them wonderful and truly challenging internships as promised...having to convince them to go to a country which they never dreamt of visiting and knew no one...my joy knew no bounds when my SNs send me mails on their experience and how grateful they were... getting to talk and chat with other exchangers round the world without having to physically see each other...sharing our challenges and realizations...and most of all having to double the exchange result of the year before leading to an 100% growth increase...i tell you it was a great experience of a life time

ENDLESS POSSIBILITIES

I have been in a semi-serious relationship for couple of weeks now with this guy whom I really liked. What attracted him to me was his straightforwarness and intelligence. I actually enjoyed hanging out with him because he was so much fun to hang with.

A week into our relationship, I found out he had a serious relationship with some lady who is not based in lagos. I didn't mind, as I wasn't interested in been serious with him and it was much more convenient for me.

But lately, I feel the need to break free from the relationship as I don't feel happy in it anymore-not that he has done anything wrong. He does all he can in his own best way to always be there and make me happy. There is just the feeling in me that the connection is no longer there and His attention is divided between the lady and I.

There are too many issues to contend with and am not sure I want to deal with such issues now. There comes a time when a woman wants her very own man, not a man who is already taken and whose attention is taken

What I want is a relationship with endless possibilities and a man I can also share my dreams,plans, success and fears with. he can't offer me these, afterall no one is able to offer what is not his/her to offer.Having said these, I wished things were different and He was mine to love.

I am deciding not to sette for less in life as well as love